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My mission in life is to help as many people as I can to enter into, have, and maintain successful long term relationships that bring ease and joy into their lives.
In 2007, after 4 years of being married, my wife and I divorced. I was devastated.
While we were dating, we never fought. As soon as we decided to get divorced, we never fought again. In fact, we are still very good friends to this day. This is a women I respect and care about very much. BUT! When we were married we started to argue frequently. We just couldn’t seem to “see eye to eye”. We had love, attraction, and what I thought was compatibility, but still ended up divorced. This confused and hurt me a lot.
My friends and family would ask “So, why did you to get divorced?” and the only answer I had was “We just didn’t get along”. But we had TRIED to get along. And we DID get along…as long as we were not married! And so this answer never satisfied me. Why didn’t we get along after we got married? was there something I could have done or she could have done to make it work? What was missing??? WHAT WENT WRONG???
“How can I have a succesful, long term, relationship that brings ease and joy into my life? How can I create a succesful relationship that brings ease and joy into my partner’s life?“
Since that time I have committed my entire life to answering these simple questions: What were the mistakes that lead to my divorce and how can I avoid making those mistakes? How can find, have, and maintain a succesful, long term, relationship that brings ease and joy into my life? How can I create a succesful relationship that brings ease and joy into my partner’s life?
I spent many long years researching the answers to these questions. Reading books on psychology, spirituality, dating and relationships. Seeking out mentors that could show me new ways of looking at how to approach dating and relationships. Coaching others, helping them achieve their dating goals. And, of course, dating – living the lessons I was learning.
Finally, it all just “clicked”. Pulling from multiple, diverse disciplines I have created a holistic and complete approach from before the first date to “till death do us part”.
My mission in life is to help as many people as I can to enter into, have, and maintain long term relationships that bring ease and joy into their lives. I am here to help you.